What to do in absence of a father. How to deal with Fathlerlessness?
The Masculine Sage
6/23/20252 min read
Fatherlessness comes in many forms, absent father, a weak father, an irresponsible father, etc. The variations are endless.
But the deep damaging effect of young kids who grow up without a strong father is severe and widely seen in our modern times.
Young boys are weak, feminine and scared to take up responsibilities. Young boys are under confident, weak and indecisive. They grow up with countless traumas and self doubts that they keep struggling throughout their adulthood.
Young girls struggle with love and respecting themselves, they often end up in problems just to chase the love and validation that they wanted from their father. Slowly they end up in bad company and turn degenerate.
What to do in such situations? How to deal with fatherlessness?
Find a Father figure
Learn from all the possible sources
Build a masculine frame
These are the steps you need to follow in order to fix the absence of a father. I will break down the steps for you,
Finding a father figure means learning from the man who you respect and look up to, you don't need special skills for this. You will know when you find a man who is strong and respectable. You will want to become like him if you are a man, you will want to be around him if you are a woman.
It is not necessary to stick to one person for your reference, lessons and standards to become a man, you can learn from multiple men, or sources like authors, books, stories, characters. Anyone who teaches your an important life lessons is father. God is Father.
This is the second step, expand your sources of learnings, become a student and devote yourself to learning the lessons and experiences a father would have taught you, yes you will feel lonely, sad and depressed on your way.
But in those hard times remember that you are doing all this to save your children from the absence of a strong father, you want to become a strong, wise and respectful man who become a father figure for others.
A Man saves a fellow man.
The third step is the final step which makes you bullet proof against the evils of fatherlessness.
Building a Strong Masculine Frame.
Your Masculine Frame is your self image of a strong wise and respectful man. A superior entity inside you reflecting everything you want to be and everything you are.
An entity who you learn from, take advice from. It is like an inner voice that guides you in life.
When you successfully build this entity inside of you. You become the entity.
You become the MAN.
This is how you deal with fatherlessness.
In my program THE MAN WITHIN I have talked extensively on how to be a strong man and become a competent father, how to find your strength, confidence and power to win in life.
