How to make real friends? Tips to filter out traitors.

The Masculine Sage

4/23/20252 min read

I believe that we are here on earth for a very short period of time. (25,550 days only If you live for 70 years)

Out of which you have already lived 7300 days given you are 20 year old. You are left with 18250 days.

Then you will die.

Given that life is this short and you have to live a variety of experiences in this time period.

From making yourself better to getting married to having and raising competent kids, travelling, taking care of your parents and all the possible things you want to do.

Wasting your time on people who are not worth your time and attention is not something you want to do.

This brings us a question. How to make real friends?

Here is how.

You want people who are honest and live their life according to some values they follow all their life. This makes them predictable, trustable and safe to be around.

You want people who are not politically correct on everything. Because political correctness is a mask we wear to avoid the temporary problem that may stop us from getting what we want.

This is true for all humans, this is why I used "WE".

You want people who are honest about their world views, this will make it easier to find people who have similar beliefs.

Judge them based on their controversial beliefs, the passion in their eyes when they hate the same things as you will make it very easy to judge the authenticity of their words.

Be quick to cut out people who have objectionable morals and values.

Be quick to cut out people who fake their true self.

This will save you years of time and keep your circle clean.

Only trust people truly when you have spent years of time with them.

Keep the circle small and free of losers.

These people are the ones who will help you in your journey of life.

These are the ones who will attend your funeral.

Temporary people come and go but these people stay.

One of the important non negotiable factor in this process is that you have to be a Top tier man.

A man who is wise, strong, competent and controlled in all aspects,

This is where I recommend you getting my Program The Man Within(click for details)

Winners recognise winners.